Saturday, 26 January 2013

Cinta Aturan Keluarga =')


assalamualaikum semua..entry ini ditulis ekoran roomate saya cik mai tu dah bising suruh update..padahal tiap-tiap hari saya update..olalala~okay lah.nah baca lah sampai lebam =P
mula-mula penat otak ni duk fikir nak story tentang apa...tetibe..tadaaaa...amik kauu...kawkaw punya..huehue

okay..macam kita tahu kan..before the 20th century,our elder generations use to have arranged marriage in the lives where the choice of a husband or wife is made by parents or elders.In some cases of arranged marriage,the woman or a man only get to meet their bride or groom on their wedding day itself.As the time passes,the younger generation in these day and age stopped following the tradition and prefer love marriage.In my opinion,both arranged marriage and love marriage has it's own pros and cons.with this being the scenario,lets look at both advantage and disadvantages of arranged marriage in today's society before coming to a conclusion.


By practising arranged marriage,we can make our parents or elders satisfied.As mentiond earlier,the choice of a husband or wife is fully made by our parents.Therefore,they are satisfied with their decision and overwhelmed by the thought that they had created a better future for their  son or daughter.On the other hand,love marriage turns out to be a disaster when the couple do not get the approve from their parents.As we all well informed,there are still families in today's society who strictly follow the earlier tradition where arranged marriage is practised.So,in love marriage,when the parents do not approve their children's relationship,the children tend to be violent and act against their parents and family.This Completely breaks the breaks the parents hard as their beloved children move against them.All these will not happen in arranged marriage as the couple obtain full blessings of their parents and family.


Next,by the arranged marriage,one get a husband or wife with a good and respectable character.Since the marriage is fully planned by the parents or elders,they will investigate their future son or daughter-in-law's characters thouroughly.They will select a person with a good education,better family background, and mainly with best character*Beriman..They will definitely not select someone with a worst character and put their children's life in danger.Besides parents are matured enough and can differentiate between good and bad which most of the teenagers in this generation does not passess.Most of teenagers only go for look and appearance in selecting their partner.They do not care about their partner's character as long as their partner's is good looking and wealthy.They might choose a wrong person as their livepartner as they only consider certain aspects.Therefore,by arranged marriage one can get a better future as their parents will select a person with good qualities and one who can support their children in only circumstances.


last but not least,ini just my opinion..lepas ni kalau ada yang tak setuju jangan hentam saya pulak ye..hee~*Penakut orangnya..okay..saya orang yang jujur..so nak bagitau bahawasanya ayat-ayat diatas bukan ayat saya pon..hee~saya "tiru" dari satu kertas ujian..ye la..saya kan tak pandai cakap omputih ni..huhu so jangan terharu sangat dengan bahasa saya tu tau =P apa-apa pun say no to couple..cinta after nikah is the best choice..contoh blogger yang paling saya suka ikuti perkembangan mereka..sweet sangat..cinta ba'da nikah and paling penting pilihan keluarga.. =') semoga kalian sentiasa berbahagia sampai ke syurga..

sweet =')
kak dena bahrin and abg suffian..tahniah kak dena dpt baby boy =')
sweet (^_^)
kak munirah and abg safwan..
Agama buat kehidupan di akhirat, 
harta buat kehidupan di dunia. 
Di Dunia orang yang tidak berharta berasa susah hati, 
tetapi orang yang tidak beragama merasa lebih sengsara 

-Saidina Abu Bakar As-Siddiq





✿ Semoga Allah Redha Dengan Perkongsian Ini ✿

7 comments:

ladya azel said...

assalamualaikum w.b.t

Najah ! entry for this time sounds like my parents have arranged marriage for me..is it ??
hahaha.. :D

bercinta selepas nikah?
selalu org kate lg best kan :)
*xtau lah sbb takde pngalaman..heehe

pilihan keluarga diutamakan~

nice job CHIK NAJAH ;)



NaJaH RaZaK said...

@ladya azel saya juga tak ada pengalaman..tapi saya yakin cinta selepas kahwin itu sangat indah dan jauh lebih indah hingga ke syurga..dan jalan-jalannya lebih diredhai..^_^

aisyah humaira' said...

ye, kak niera sgt akui. lebih tenang, lebih bahagia dan lebih manja. hehe

Ain Riz said...

mmg taa nafikan ponn , kalau kite tgok orgg yg bercinta lepas/sebelum nikah lain gaye manjee nyee !
ituu lhaa , sempurna sgtt rancangan allah tuee kann ? kitee jea kadangkadanga butee dengan duniawi ! hee ~

#pestyme datang sini , salam kenalan najah (*.*)

Amy Hana said...

Big enjoy reading this . Oh sweet >.< Jazakillah , nice sharing :)

nur azian said...

sy pon suka baca pasal mereka berdua :)

NaJaH RaZaK said...

@aisyah humaira' yeahhh...kan dah ada bukti..hehe selamat berbahagia ^_^

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